Zillion thanx to everybody who've replied! It was _really_ helpful.
A little bit of update, mainly for people who (like myself) would google through forums in a search for an answer to this very problem.
So recently, I've done a bit of practical testing myself.
1. eTrex Venture HC. Works like charm as external GPS data provider. No additional setup needed, just run GPSGate on your PC and some NMEA-compliant mapping software (in my case, it was Microsoft Streets and Trips).
Pros: cheap'n'rugged, no black magic needed to get it running in GPS mode.
Cons: only 24M memory, non-expandable. Means (in my case) you can upload _either_ Boston _or_ rest of S New England road map... That sux big time.
Overall, not much use as a car GPS, even as a backup solution. Though, a nice thing if you're planning a hike and bringing a laptop (to get to the place) plus good old paper maps along
2. Nuvi family. In addition to GPSGate, requires a little black magic to set up as external source: <removed expired link>
(summary: plug the cable off, turn GPS unit on, hold battery icon for ~10 sec, plug cable in, press Exit, enjoy)
Nuvi 255W would not be able to show the map by itself, Nuvi 265T, would.
Pros: really good for driving.
Cons: entering GPS mode is a little bit tricky. Not quite suitable for hiking. Though - Nuvi 500 or 550 might be the answer.
Nevertheless: if anyone else had a first-hand positive experience with plugging a standalone unit (especially, non-Garmin one) to a PC, your additions are welcome!